Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Working With Mother Nature

Have I mentioned how amazing my husband is?  Not only does he still call me his bride, he makes the bed every morning and tells me I'm beautiful every day.  But what thrills me the most, is to watch him get an idea and then grow with it.

Cindy's Man cut down a  tree that was dying in their front yard a couple of years ago.  His children liked to climb on it's big, open branches and he was afraid that the more it rotted, the less safe it would become.  So down came the Ponderosa Pine.

Over the years most of the branches have been cut and split for fire wood.  But a few caught He-man's eye before they made their way to the chopping block.  He asked Cindy's Man if he could haul a couple of the larger pieces home.  I assumed they would be added to a stack of other so-called treasures gathering dust in his already crowded garage/workshop.

Now I must eat crow.  Oh how I hate the taste of dark fowl meat!!

He-man took an old dusty stump....
...and a few spindly branches
and he whittled and sanded and ground and polished and whittled some more until they fit together to make a beautiful table for our home.  

I feel as if I have a piece of Mother Nature living in our dining room.  Her work is magnificent.  She and He-man are great partners; she adorning her trees in life and he revealing their everlasting beauty even after death.

It's only fitting that the rings of this table should hold a jar of tulips, tossing their little red heads open to receive the glory of all that The Creator gives.
My grand children still sit within the branches of the Ponderosa Pine.  They run their hands over her lovely smooth top that he-man sanded.   They sit their bottoms on top of her rings that He-man exposed.  They can't pass by without touching her sides that remain in her natural shape when she was planted in Cindy's front yard.

Have I mentioned how amazing my husband is?
60.  I am grateful for thoughts that gather dust in process of transformation.

I hope your Tuesday is even better than your Monday.  I hope that you might gather up a few pieces of that which you considered to be no longer safe and hold it gently for a while.  I hope you allow it to grow anew in your heart until it greets you every day with a magnificent beauty.
Yaya

Sunday, January 29, 2012

We Are Becoming Better Aquainted

Nearly three months have passed since I got my Digital Single Lens (DSL) camera.  It has been a challenging relationship - I wanting to control the focus - my camera being overly sensitive to my every suggestion.  I found myself reverting to old passive aggressive patterns of angry sighs and silent treatments while giving in to shooting in automatic mode.

And to add fuel to my disappointment, I lost over 3,000 pictures from my external drive  (I know, I know, I should have used an on-line back up center).  I spent a good deal of time practicing gratitude last week as I indulged in a five day pity party.

However I can feel myself settling down, surrendering to what is and forgiving myself for disrespecting Lola (that's the name I have given my camera).

Ahh, things are improving.  Lola gently hung about my neck while at JD's and Tara's the other day and we happily worked together.  I forgot about getting it right and simply tried to capture the precious moments in time spent with Tornado and Boo.

I've had fun fiddling around with an editing program too.  I am finding it much easier to manage this computer program than understanding the light coming into my camera (and it's all about light - well mostly, anyway).



I walked around the house yesterday and took a variety of shots using my manual mode.  I played with angles, light, ISO (camera's sensitivity to the light) and the aperture settings until I felt more comfortable speaking Lola's language. 

I saw improvement from many of my first attempts three months ago, which I can't show you because my external drive crashed, but I am over it.... really I am.  I am not brooding about the years of documentation I have lost or what I don't have or how unfair it is that I spent money to buy the better unit and took time to export all my photos (nearly 4,000, or did I already mention that) from flash drives to what was supposed to be a safer external drive.  Really, I'm over it.

...and if you believe that, I've got some great land for sale in the water district of Florida.

Seriously, Lola and I had a great time together yesterday.








59. I am grateful for relationships that build over time.

I hope your Monday offers you a reason to rejoice.  I hope you receive a better understanding of something or someone you have been struggling with.  I hope you can let the past go and capture the precious moments of today.
Yaya

Softly Sunday

“I begged and the spirit of Wisdom came to me.”~ Wisdom 7:7

People’s willingness to find God in their own struggle with life—and let it change them—is their deepest and truest obedience to God’s eternal will. We must admit this is what all of us do anyway, as “God comes to us disguised as our life”! Remember, always remember, that the heartfelt desire to do the will of God is, in fact, the truest will of God. At that point, God has won, and the ego has lost, and your prayer has already been answered.
To sum up the importance of an alternative mind, this message from an unknown source says it all:

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Saturday, January 28, 2012

The Great Chili Run


He-man and I are hosting a Super Bowl Party next Sunday and it's tradition to serve chili.  I've been cooking chili every night for a week now, looking for the one I want to become our Super Bowl favorite.

I'm not a gal of firm tradition.  Remember me?  I'm the one who likes to mix things up, change stuff around and remake what is already made.  I think of myself as the female version of Tim the Tool Man (for those of you old enough to remember the television show, Home Improvement).  I like to keep the traditional.... just tweak it a bit here and there.

I tasted Paula Deen's white chili recipe last week and it was AMAZING.  Truly the best white chili I have ever eaten.  Being too cheap to buy her cookbook, I surfed the net for two days looking for Paula's recipe.  No luck.  So I came up with my own.










58.  I am grateful for those who inspire and lead the way

I hope your Saturday is a fun one.  I hope your taste buds are delighted and your imagination ignited.  I hope you love what you try to do and love that you try doing it.
 Yaya

Friday, January 27, 2012

Just Because

I went grocery shopping the other day.....ALL BY MYSELF.....it was a peaceful trip.  I actually got to hear people around me shop and talk.  Normally I have Tornado and Boo with me and my little Tornado tells everyone hi and bye and tries to jump out the buggy (not a cart - Texas people call them buggies, lol).  
I was sacking my groceries when I heard two women talking.  One was shopping and the other was behind the counter. The check-out-lady asked the shopper, "Who is all this chocolate for?" 

The shopper replied, "Its for my husband.  I'm going to rush home and put it right by his chair....on the little stand."  

The check-out-lady asked, "What's the occasion?" 

The shopper said, "No occasion  --  Just Because."

Those two words stuck in my head all day. 


So the next day when in the middle of my routine, I heard a voice in my head.  It said, "Just because, Why don't you invite Yaya and Poppa over for dinner?   Just because. NO OCCASION......JUST BECAUSE."
Have any of you ever done something just because  -- Just because you love someone, or because it's Friday, or because you know it would be awesome? 

Those two little words grabbed me unexpectedly.  Maybe they will grab you too.  I totally think that our JUST BECAUSE dinner could have been one of the best we have shared yet. 

Today, can you do something just because?

Have the best day!! 

Tara

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Chinese New Year 2012

Monday was the beginning of the Chinese New Year 15 day celebration. We have been learning there are many traditions involved in this holiday. My children have loved it!!!
Some traditions include:
*giving and receiving beautiful red envelopes with money inside 
     (who doesn't think that is FUN)!
*setting off fireworks
*the entire family cleaning their home (now I am loving this idea :))
*hanging red lanterns in your windows
*eating LONG noodles and dumplings
*attending a Lion Dance

One of our sweet friends put red envelops in our mailbox.  My children all did a little happy dance, first when they received mail, and next when they found money inside. 
We didn't have fireworks to celebrate but we did have confetti guns that gave a big BANG and were lots of fun!

We ate long noodles and dumplings at a local Chinese Restaurant and got to watch a Lion Dance.
I have always thought this was a dragon of some kind, but no it is actually a Lion...who knew?!? 
Bluebird could hardly contain herself... she and the boys followed the Lion all over the restaurant dancing along side.So much fun! 
Bluebird thinks that we should eat Chinese food for the entire 15 days and I have to say that I did give it a thought.
We have all enjoyed this new tradition... It makes me so excited for next year when we will be celebrating with our new little one.

I am so thankful we had friends encourage us to begin celebrating this year even before our new little girl is with us. Next year my kids will remember the fun and be ready to share these traditions with her. It wont be just our new little ones tradition, but it will be our family tradition.... my kids are already familiar with it and LOVE it!

What fun it will be to celebrate Chinese New Year with her....
Cindy

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Wordy Wednesday

Hello, my friends.  Today is the day we pay attention to what we say, how we think, how we act or react.  I suppose this should be something we do everyday and I know many of you do this.  But Wordy Wednesday is where we (Yaya, Cindy and Tara) ask all our readers to join together for twenty four dedicated hours to pay attention to our choices.

Read the quotes below and apply one to your day....  to every place and space of your day.  When you first wake (if you read this blog in the evening, apply it tomorrow)  think about how you can use your quote to better your home, your school, your office building. your walk around the neighborhood, your time in the grocery store or driving in your car.  

Science is discovering that we can actually reroute the ruts (pathways) in our brain.  We can create new paths with new thoughts.  When you hear the saying, "I'm stuck in a rut."  It's true.  We are stuck in a rut of thinking one way or thinking negatively.  All we have to do get out of our rut is to have another thought - a higher thought - a more positive thought.  All we have to do is pay attention to what we are thinking and then make changes where needed.

I wish you well, and send good thoughts for a content and satisfying day.
Yaya


Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Empty Spaces Change Places

It wasn't that long ago - at least it doesn't seem like it - that I was in Wyoming with my chickadees.  I remember serving sliced apples for a snack and noticing that Cautious had to bite the apples on the side of her mouth because her front teeth were missing.  She had a sprinkling of freckles across her nose and an empty space in her smile --- adorable in my opinion.
A couple of days ago I received a photo from TD's hubby's phone.   The empty spaces have moved!
Now Cautious can bite her apple in the front, but I wonder if she has trouble chewing on the side?   Little Sparky isn't revealing a thing.  I wonder if she has an empty space in her smile?

Looks like they had a special day at school in curly hair and colorful dress.  Normally they wear uniforms.  Looks kind of eighties to me.  In fact, I'm sure I had a shirt exactly like the one Sparky is wearing. 



Yesterday, I got this picture from Mr. Z's phone.  Muffin wanted to show me her new hair cut.  Looks like Sparky stayed at home when they went to the salon.  She told her dad she might get her hair cut later.... and... she is still being tight lipped, giving me no clues about her spaces.  

Guess I'll just have to make a trip to Wyoming to find out for myself.  The pay for this kind of detective work is three chickadee squeezes and Muffin for breakfast.

57. I am grateful for I-phones.

I hope a pleasant memory finds its way to you today.  I hope someone adorable sends you a happy smile.  And I hope you treat yourself to a bit of pampering.  You are worth it.

Monday, January 23, 2012

A Plate Full Of Flowers

I know we are experiencing an an exceptionally mild winter, but a bouquet of fresh grown flowers this time of year is unheard of.  

Maybe the sweet song of a Bluebird and the warm rays of Sunshine made it happen.  Maybe it was the desire to give something to another.  Maybe it was the joy of a celebration.  More than likely it was all three.  All I know is that I was the recipient and those flowers made me happy.
We celebrated my birthday at Cindy's and her Man's last week.  It's always nice to feel the special in the celebration my family does at birthdays.  But what I like most is to witness the excitement of my grand children as they give me my birthday presents.  They seem happier to be giving me something than they are when opening their own birthday gifts.

Bluebird made me sugar cookies in the shape of large flowers, decorating every petal, attending to every detail - even the stripe on the back of the honey bee that rested on the blossoms.
Sunshine could hardly wait for me to open her gift to unveil the personalized apron within.
Love that they like my cooking enough to put it in writing!!

Everyone was waiting for me to sink my face into my birthday cake, like I did last year.  But it wouldn't be as shocking as it was the first time around  --- and I wasn't too keen on the possibility of scooping cherry syrup out of my fifty-nine-year-old eye sockets.
As I climbed in bed that night, I was thinking of the extra sit-ups I would have to trade off for that piece of chocolate cake I ate. (hum, maybe I should have put my face in it?)

As I tucked my tired body under the covers and began to offer thanks for the day, I saw flowers in January ---- Sunshine and Bluebirds ---- dreams and storms ---- puppies panting and shadows hovering. 
56. I am grateful for children who warm the Winter.

I hope your Monday brings you something sweet.  I hope something is written on your heart.  I hope you go to bed tonight feeling full, satisfied and happy with all the gifts that this day has given specifically for you.
Yaya